02-22-2007, 07:35 PM
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reach for the stars
Posts: 1,179
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: minnesota
Age: 34
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my son
Ever sense i was a little girl i knew i wanted to be a mother.I met my husband in highschool.We married and i thought my dream was about to come true.Saddly it wasn't (at least not right away).We tried for a year and nothing.Every month i would tell myself "this is the month" yet month after month nothing.We went to the Dr. and found out my husband couldn't have children.We were heart broken.Then after the shock we thought "we can still have kids" i could still have kids.We would just use a donor.So the waiting began again.Month after month waiting for my temp to be right,yet nothing.They put me on fertility drugs.Month after month NOTHING.With every month that went by i feel into a deeper depression.Weman all around me were having babies,but i couldn't.It got so bad that i couldn't leave the house,because i saw mothers with thier babies.I would stay home and cry.Then the Dr. told us there was nothing else they could do.No more drugs to give.No more hope.We couldn't afford adoption.I cried all the way home.I couldn't get out of bed for days.My marriage suffered.After only 5 years we were talking divorce.Then a ray of hope came into our lives.A woman i knew from school heard about our problems and wanted to help.She was pregnate and couldn't keep the baby.She had 4 already.I remember the first time i saw that little life on the ultra sound."That is my baby" was all could think.I couldn't take my eyes of it.I still remember the day he was born.My Son.They layed him in my arm.So small and skinny.I knew the feeling of a mothers Love.I knew that i would alway Love him.No matter what.Through the good and bad (he is 8).I know that even though he is not of my flesh.Didn't grow under my heart but in it.That he is the greatest Joy in my life.Everyday i thank the Lord for him.And everyday i thank the Lord for the woman that brought him into my life
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02-23-2007, 01:56 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Spain-Madrid
Age: 34
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Hi Purplecowgirl:
I read u storry and i had cryead, u sims to be a very nice person and yes God give u this bless one way or another u had deservead, and i ritght u cause i am a meriead women and i have 2 girls already one with 15 and the other with 22 and we all are a happy familly, but all this to tell u that i had adopet another girl lololol i love children very much and this one was sufering with bad parents that drinck so much and sex abouse to, and one day God send me this girl she was a school frend of my dother and she wantead to stay with me, and yes we are much happier now and i have another life to loock after, so from my heart i do understand how do u fell with u son. See u for now and i really holp we can talk sometime |
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03-01-2007, 10:47 AM
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Blessed Be...
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Holland, Mi
Age: 21
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it is so great that we can do that here in this country. i am soo happy for the both of you. love both of them with all you heart.
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03-01-2007, 12:37 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: louisiana
Age: 39
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Purple, thank you for sharing your story. There are many families out there facing the same problem. God has his plans and it was in his plans for you to be this childs mother. You take care and cherish every minute.
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Ah bless, that's a lovely story. I'm so happy for all to be a family.
