01-31-2007, 02:35 PM
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Mate, i have to say well done to you for not letting anything happen when you clearly knew that something could have.There alot of guys who would have. You sound like a genuine guy who helped this girl out in a time of need. She said herself that she has feelings for you and you for her. So dont push things, just give her time to get over her last relationship and when she is ready for another it sounds like she will let you know. Just be ther for her when she needs you. I wish you luck with whatever happens !!!!!!
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01-31-2007, 11:07 PM
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Im still not so sure. I still really dont know how to approach this situation. like i said before that this past monday we talked or hung out in over a month. I know she still isnt over her b/f yet and she even said she doesnt want a relationship right know becuase she is confused. One other thing is that she hangs out with this other guy we work with and i guess she said she fooled around with him one night when she was drunk. She said she doesnt like him and it was a huge mistake. I guess know he thinks she is his g/f and he follows her around everywhere when she told him she doesnt want one. She says she doesnt want to hurt is his feelings. My question is why doesnt she push him away like she did me and i didnt even cross that line?
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02-01-2007, 04:26 PM
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Mate, this is what i said in my last post on your dilema. this guy she fooled around with when she was drunk is just there for what he can get out of her and hoping for more of the same. The way it sounds to me is that she likes you, but i dont think you are the type of guy to rush things (and thats a good thing!!!!) Just let her have her own space and she will eventually realise what she wants. She needs time to get over this other relationship she was in. She will eventually tell this other guy to shove off!!! You hang in ther mate and just be there for her.
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02-01-2007, 04:30 PM
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And to the question of Why didnt she push him away like she did you? Maybe he the type of guy to stain her name and turn her into the office tramp. Could be alot of things. Havent got much to say on that one. SORRY!!!!
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02-01-2007, 07:25 PM
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IM SRRY HUN.....u did the rite thing being there for her and its her fault that she just cant see wat an amazing guy you are.
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02-06-2007, 01:01 AM
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Like i said before last week we hadnt talk outside of work or hung out in over a month. So we hung out last week and next thing you know she tells me the reason why she stop talking to me is becuase she doesnt trust herself around me, that she has always found me attractive, and that ive been the first guy to treat her good. Well i have talk to her once since last monday.
Im just lookin for some opinions on what is the best way to go about this. Should i just let it be and let her come to me if she wants to or should i still try to talk to her and see if she wants to hang out everyonce in awhile(problem with this is i dont want to be her yo yo). I dont know it would be different if i didnt know she liked me but oh well |
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02-06-2007, 03:41 AM
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At least you spoke openly. Maybe in time it will lead to a relationship. Give her time to get over her ex, as for the guy at work maybe it's just on the rebound and she'll be over him soon. Hopefully she'll choose you.
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02-06-2007, 10:32 PM
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i think you should look inside yourself first and see if this is what you truly want all this up and down never knowing if she will come to you or not then decide if she is using you or not as a back up person someone she can run to when the going gets tough for her then when you have decided follow your heart. just be careful you dont get to hurt. and you dont want to be anyones yo yo. there is a whole world of ppl out there just waiting for the right person.
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