04-22-2007, 10:30 PM
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what to do what to do
Im going through the same thing right know. About a year ago i moved away from home only an hour but on my own. first 2 months was ok becuase i had a routine of just coming home once i got off work. Then i met this girl i work with who had a b/f but she wanted to hang out with me. So for the next 4 months i had someone to talk to everyday and go out wtih. Well he b/f dumped becuase of her hanging out with me and then she stopped talking to me. Its been about 5 months i think we have talked outside of work 3 times. I called her a couple of time but rarely does she return my phone calls. Really no reason for it nothing happened between us during that time yet i was the one that got screwed. On top of that my job is becoming very difficult. I feel overwhelmed not to much for thier at work. Its just seems like i struggle to get work done everyday. The one place that was my release was work yet now i dont have that even. Its a really frustrating time right know for me.
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04-23-2007, 10:20 PM
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Thier will be no patience with this girl. For one she screwed me over time and again from just a friendship standpoint and know she is dating someone else nayways. I was in a no win situation from the get go. thier was numerous times when something could have happened but i knew she stop talking to me if it did b/c no matter how bad her b/f treated her she would have never cheated on him and i had to look out for myself becuase she would have never left him. So You know i played the nice guy role to perfection and walked away with nothing at all. all the 4 am in the mornings, the times she called me crying, all the times she told how much she liked me and wanted to meet my parents and friends, etc for nothin. And the sad part is i really never told her how i felt about how this situation went down in the end.
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04-24-2007, 12:21 AM
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sorry to hear that...the fortunate thing about these situations is that we can have personal growth from them if we allow it...its the difficult things in life that bring that about...discomfort can always be turned into good in the long run even if we can't see it at the time
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04-24-2007, 06:16 AM
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shake it off.... u never had her to begin with and u probably never will....she probably was playing a game but u have to realize that she was only a part of ur life for that brief period and now its time to smell the coffee... and move on.. dont jeopardize ur work which was ur outlet.... releash her from ur heart for u no there were never any feelings to begin with...go to work saying this is the best day of the rest of my life and move on...
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