11-20-2007, 01:13 AM
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what to do
My bf n me been 2gether 4 a yr n he wants me to have a kid with him. Only its not ezy cut. I'd have 2 hav n op 2 make it viable. I luv him but I been burnt b4 n am scared of it hapnn again. i no i got 2 decide 4 myslf but wot do u think.
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11-20-2007, 01:33 AM
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do whatever you think is right and if that dont work see if you can comprimise with him what you want, like treat him with somthing if he does go with you want.
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12-25-2007, 06:44 PM
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Taylor, I dunno how old you are, but i will give you this advice, My ex-wife and I had our first child (My Daughter) 5 yrs after we were together, and now we are devorced...But we have one beautiful Little girl that is 14 yrs old now...she didnt want kids but i did..And now that we have her and 14 yrs later, we both don't regret it...
But take your time with it and make sure its what you want to do, Becuase a childs life is at stake here and there feelings for a dad and mom..(LOVE) I hope ive gave the right advice, Sandstorm |
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12-27-2007, 07:55 PM
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Hiya,
I had my first baby when i was 20 and had been with my girlfriend for 4 years and lived together for 2 we never planned to have him (john) but it was one of the best things to happen to me in life but having a child is alot harder then most people relise there are things to consider,how good is your relationship ? are you finacianly ok ? do you have family support ,I worked 70 + hours a week to provide a nice living for my family and looked after the bairn as much as i could but then my girlfriend got postnatal depression then found out are son was disabled at 20 years old its alot to take in and having alot of family around made it alot easier for us but it was still hard.What ever you decide i hope you make you right decission but please think carfully about it and make sure its what you both want not just your partner . Hope this helps you decide and if you need any further advice dont hesitate to ask
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01-06-2008, 11:35 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by taylor86
My bf n me been 2gether 4 a yr n he wants me to have a kid with him. Only its not ezy cut. I'd have 2 hav n op 2 make it viable. I luv him but I been burnt b4 n am scared of it hapnn again. i no i got 2 decide 4 myslf but wot do u think.
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