06-28-2008, 11:29 PM
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Location: Missouri
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TIRED!
why do people have to spread rumors about me when things are going so good
 ... I mean I finally got the girl I want ......And then BOOM...This girl is saying that we slept together and we didn't and eveyone is believing her! Ahh....It makes me so freaking mad...she is one of my best friends and yes I did turn her down but for her to tell a lie like that and then let our friends treat me like a low life dog for not admitting to it .....why would a friend do that to you.....espeacially when everything is going so freaking great!!! I hate it!!! so can you tell me? why a person would be so mean and vile? |
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06-28-2008, 11:37 PM
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It's hard to say hun. People have alot of issues.One thing i can tell you is, you are right a true friend wouldn't do that! Life is a mixed bag of tricks, which can be very cruel sometimes. But remember hun, never let anyone ,ever get the best of you! You are better than that, don't sink to their level, no matter how hard it is. I just know ,that you will be fine, and i wish the very best for you! Be true to yourself, and strong as i know you are, and you will be ok!
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06-29-2008, 12:42 AM
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Rejection and jealousy cause pain in those insecure and/or those who have unrealistic expectations (whether by being misled by others or due to their own fantasy hopes).
Sometimes people in pain want to share it, so they cause others pain. It makes things worse for all but many realize that too late if ever. Just have faith in who you are and pity the liar. Truth has a way of eventually coming out. If she has any worth as a friend to anyone in your group, she'll come around to honestly. If not, I'd keep my distance from her since it will prove she cares about no one except herself. I agree with MariaSue. Rise above this and enjoy your life anyway.
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06-30-2008, 01:50 PM
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She just want's what she can't have,she's most probably not happy and so doesn't want you to be happy.Just ask her why she is making these claims and if you can't get to the bottom of it then im affraid she's not a true mate.
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