Plz Help

panda_pookiebear · 03-30-2008, 10:28 PM

hey sorry everyone..but i just needed to rant. my brother has once again tried to kill himself. its bad this time tho, hes talkin to ppl whos not really there and worse. with all the other family stuff that has been going on lately...idk. its just really hard. this isnt the first time he has tried and he says it wont be the last. im just afraid next time might be it. we have tried everything to help him but nothin seems to work. my entire family has gone crazy, and i dont know how much longer i can take it, honestly. sorry everyone, before i start a big LONG rant ill stop. i dont want yall have to listen to it all lmao u would be here all night reading...just plz keep us in prayer and thoughts

plz...its getting harder and harder to deal with everything my family does..

Dr. Mooka · 03-30-2008, 10:33 PM

Aww pooks! I'm so sorry to hear about this. If you really are concerned about your brother doing it again, and i know you are, you can call the cops, because suicide can be considered murder. I'm sorry about your family situation hun, just know that soon you'll be out on your own, and whether or not you choose to talk to them, it'll be your choice. You know im here for you if you need me.

Brown_eyes_2284 · 03-30-2008, 10:43 PM

awwim sorry hun hope everything works out for you and ur family and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

ycats · 03-30-2008, 11:27 PM

panda, i'm so sorry to hear that ur struggling through all of this. ur not bothering us at all typing out all that, type as much as u need. we're here for u through all this, never feel u can't say what ur feeling!

sohighman · 04-04-2008, 10:19 AM

we are here for u if u need us.if u eed to tal ill listen and try to help i went threw it with my older brother so i know how u feel.

krobelus · 04-04-2008, 11:38 AM

here in the uk you can have your loved ones sectioned when they are in that kind of state(placed under the care of the local mental health facility),its a hard thing to do,but it does help,i know cos i speak from experience,6 months after i and my wife parted company she went through what your brother is going through now and i was the one who had to have her sectioned because in the eyes of the law we were still married and i was responsible for her,its now 8 years later and shes getting on with her life,she still has problems but not as bad as the ones she had when she had to be sectioned,so if your willing hun,consider getting him the help of the local mental health care facility,like i said its hard but 9 out of 10 times it works

**aussiegirl** · 04-09-2008, 02:56 AM

you and your family are in my thoughts panda.

Charmaine · 04-09-2008, 05:57 AM

Thats terrible. Dont worry You, your brother and your family will be in my thoughts and I really hope you get through whatever you're going through.

GrammyBear · 04-09-2008, 06:22 AM

I agree with krob on getting your brother somewhere he's safe from himself and can get help. Often attempts are cries for help and they need it so bad, suicide seems the only way out of whatever is torturing them. Don't blame yourself or others as this serves no purpose and sometimes there is no answer to "why". The mentally ill can be places in their heads others can't reach or understand therefore can't seem to help with. With therapy (and meds if needed), maybe he can see clearer and realize, life is worth living and things will get better given time.
My prayers are with you and your family.

**Precious_Shanny** · 04-10-2008, 02:07 AM

Hey Panda Love, I know that you're going through a lot right now. Don't ever think that you're alone, you know you can always talk to me whenever you need it, you have my number, take advantage of it if you need to. I wish I was closer to you so I could help get you out of your hell. But always remember, God knows how strong of a person you are, and he'll never give you more than you can handle. He's always by your side watching over you. You deserve a better life than what you've been handed, but someday you'll look back and be greatful for everything you've been through because it will make you a much stronger person and you'll be able to handle anything that's thrown at you because you're already going through hell at such a young age. Soon as you're 18, don't hesitate to get out of there at anytime, nobody can stop you, and don't feel guilty about turning your back on your family if it's needed. Sometimes it takes something like that to slap them into reality, and if that doesn't open their eyes than they may be beyond help and there's nothing you can do anyways. Even though that sounds terrible, it's the truth. You're always in my prayers and you'll pull through this and walk away with a smile.
Remind your brother that suicide is a premanent solution to a temporary problem. I drill that into friends' heads that are contemplating suicide. Sometimes, it doesnt matter how much help you or a professional gives someone, you never know which one's will pull through it. If he does take the final plunge just know that he's not suffering anymore and can live in peace free from the stresses and hardships of life, some people just aren't strong enough to indure it all. It's nothing against them, it's just the truth. But you are such a strong person don't ever let anyone bring you down. You'll make it through this and will soon live a much better happier life than what you've gone through.
I love you girl!

03-30-2008, 10:28 PM	#1 (permalink)

panda_pookiebear New Member Posts: 16 Points: 1,180,967,641 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Illinois	Plz Help hey sorry everyone..but i just needed to rant. my brother has once again tried to kill himself. its bad this time tho, hes talkin to ppl whos not really there and worse. with all the other family stuff that has been going on lately...idk. its just really hard. this isnt the first time he has tried and he says it wont be the last. im just afraid next time might be it. we have tried everything to help him but nothin seems to work. my entire family has gone crazy, and i dont know how much longer i can take it, honestly. sorry everyone, before i start a big LONG rant ill stop. i dont want yall have to listen to it all lmao u would be here all night reading...just plz keep us in prayer and thoughts plz...its getting harder and harder to deal with everything my family does..

03-30-2008, 10:33 PM	#2 (permalink)

Dr. Mooka CUSA Nuisence Posts: 300 Points: 6,863,143,824 Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Texas Age: 19	Aww pooks! I'm so sorry to hear about this. If you really are concerned about your brother doing it again, and i know you are, you can call the cops, because suicide can be considered murder. I'm sorry about your family situation hun, just know that soon you'll be out on your own, and whether or not you choose to talk to them, it'll be your choice. You know im here for you if you need me. __________________

03-30-2008, 10:43 PM	#3 (permalink)

Brown_eyes_2284 ~Always Confused~ Posts: 3,601 Points: 875,683,888,680 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: kentucky Age: 24	*awwim sorry hun hope everything works out for you and ur family and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.* __________________

03-30-2008, 11:27 PM	#4 (permalink)

ycats Witty Kitty Posts: 2,125 Blog Entries: 1 Points: 3,147,352,199,050 Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: USA Age: 21	panda, i'm so sorry to hear that ur struggling through all of this. ur not bothering us at all typing out all that, type as much as u need. we're here for u through all this, never feel u can't say what ur feeling! __________________ Any questions or concerns? Email me: ycats@chatsusa.com

04-04-2008, 10:19 AM	#5 (permalink)

sohighman $get money$ Posts: 293 Points: 878,785,416 Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: connecticut	we are here for u if u need us.if u eed to tal ill listen and try to help i went threw it with my older brother so i know how u feel. __________________ UMMMMM....WHAT

04-04-2008, 11:38 AM	#6 (permalink)

krobelus CUSA Moderator Posts: 6,930 Points: 47,432,131,777 Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: fortress of solitude Age: 35	here in the uk you can have your loved ones sectioned when they are in that kind of state(placed under the care of the local mental health facility),its a hard thing to do,but it does help,i know cos i speak from experience,6 months after i and my wife parted company she went through what your brother is going through now and i was the one who had to have her sectioned because in the eyes of the law we were still married and i was responsible for her,its now 8 years later and shes getting on with her life,she still has problems but not as bad as the ones she had when she had to be sectioned,so if your willing hun,consider getting him the help of the local mental health care facility,like i said its hard but 9 out of 10 times it works __________________ CALL ME JACK BAUER.......WHERES MY CELL PHONE proud member of the M.H.C--B.W.C--M.G.C

04-09-2008, 02:56 AM	#7 (permalink)

aussiegirl Premium Member Posts: 1,160 Blog Entries: 2 Points: 1,937,925,875 Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Australia	you and your family are in my thoughts panda. __________________

04-09-2008, 05:57 AM	#8 (permalink)

Charmaine The Crazy Pirate Posts: 5,179 Points: 1,019,683,201 Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Don't know	Thats terrible. Dont worry You, your brother and your family will be in my thoughts and I really hope you get through whatever you're going through. __________________ *~~~Proud member of the CUSA Bookworms club~~~*

04-09-2008, 06:22 AM	#9 (permalink)

GrammyBear Joy Seeker! Posts: 10,106 Blog Entries: 1 Points: 1,837,474,777,086 Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: ...just over the edge Age: 54	I agree with krob on getting your brother somewhere he's safe from himself and can get help. Often attempts are cries for help and they need it so bad, suicide seems the only way out of whatever is torturing them. Don't blame yourself or others as this serves no purpose and sometimes there is no answer to "why". The mentally ill can be places in their heads others can't reach or understand therefore can't seem to help with. With therapy (and meds if needed), maybe he can see clearer and realize, life is worth living and things will get better given time. My prayers are with you and your family. __________________ Happiness is a Choice - Not an Accident! Be Yourself: Those who mind don't matter. Those who matter, won't mind. Leave good memories in the hearts of others. Proud Member: CUSA's Bookworms, Moviegoers, and Metalheads Best Wishes and Bear Hugs, GrammyBear CUSA Moderator

04-10-2008, 02:07 AM	#10 (permalink)

Precious_Shanny Premium Member Posts: 130 Points: 10,181,489,768 Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: UT, USA	Hey Panda Love, I know that you're going through a lot right now. Don't ever think that you're alone, you know you can always talk to me whenever you need it, you have my number, take advantage of it if you need to. I wish I was closer to you so I could help get you out of your hell. But always remember, God knows how strong of a person you are, and he'll never give you more than you can handle. He's always by your side watching over you. You deserve a better life than what you've been handed, but someday you'll look back and be greatful for everything you've been through because it will make you a much stronger person and you'll be able to handle anything that's thrown at you because you're already going through hell at such a young age. Soon as you're 18, don't hesitate to get out of there at anytime, nobody can stop you, and don't feel guilty about turning your back on your family if it's needed. Sometimes it takes something like that to slap them into reality, and if that doesn't open their eyes than they may be beyond help and there's nothing you can do anyways. Even though that sounds terrible, it's the truth. You're always in my prayers and you'll pull through this and walk away with a smile. Remind your brother that suicide is a premanent solution to a temporary problem. I drill that into friends' heads that are contemplating suicide. Sometimes, it doesnt matter how much help you or a professional gives someone, you never know which one's will pull through it. If he does take the final plunge just know that he's not suffering anymore and can live in peace free from the stresses and hardships of life, some people just aren't strong enough to indure it all. It's nothing against them, it's just the truth. But you are such a strong person don't ever let anyone bring you down. You'll make it through this and will soon live a much better happier life than what you've gone through. I love you girl!