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Wild_N_Crazy · 08-22-2007, 01:16 AM

how do u explain to someone how much u love them and wont ever hurt them in any way........... i have a feelling my boyfriend is not understanding me in anyway i just want him to understand i am not the type to cheat on anyone never have never will but if yall can help me plzs do????

08-22-2007, 01:56 AM

noone can help hun that he has to do himself...if he thinks that you will cheat on him or you will do anything else to hurt him then it sounds like he doesnt trust you and if he cant trust you then my opinion it wont work...sorry for being blunt but just my opinion...hope all works out for the best...and good luck

08-26-2007, 04:34 AM

It sounds to me that he might be playing you
You have to have it out with him
Make or break
Make sure you love him for the right reasons

**freakyfairie** · 08-27-2007, 03:42 PM

hun im sorry to tell you this but tykes is right he has to see it and realise it on his own. He has his own mind and its usually every hard to change someones mind. He might have been done wrong in the past and thinks at the time that all the girls will do him the same way. Hun, if you love him just be patient and he will come around. I hope everything works out for the best for you both hun. MUAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHhh!!!!! loves ya!!! good luck!!!!!

**Jonathan** · 08-27-2007, 06:53 PM

Trust is something earned. It will take time to gain that level of trust. If you are always faithful to him, then he will trust you with that.

Best of luck!
- Jonathan

icu · 08-28-2007, 05:22 AM

Hun, if he can't believe you on this subject from my experince he has had relationships in the past that are stopping him from trusting you. You just have to keep showing him that cheating is not part of what you do. Show him that you love him and that you wouldn't even dream of cheating on him. Even if you have done nothing yourself to make him not trust you, women in his past has, which will make it hard for you. Just keep showing him that you love him and want to be with him and only him. Just keep your head up and things should be ok. I hope that helps you.

p.s. Please remember that my adivce comes from my own personal experince. I am not a prefessional.

Wild_N_Crazy · 08-29-2007, 08:38 PM

i want to thank all of yall for the input i had a nice talk with him and found out why and yall are right it has allot to do with his past he does trust me but he has been done wrong by girls in the past so i will keep letting him know i will not ever cheat on him and show him all i can to let him understand that and he also knows i will never cheat on him and i love him with all my heart
thanks agian from all of yall!!!

American Cowboy83 · 08-29-2007, 11:18 PM

hmmmmmmmmmmm i dunno

**Jonathan** · 08-29-2007, 11:20 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by American Cowboy83

hmmmmmmmmmmm i dunno

well that was insightful!

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08-22-2007, 01:56 AM	#2 (permalink)

tykes80 Guest Posts: n/a	noone can help hun that he has to do himself...if he thinks that you will cheat on him or you will do anything else to hurt him then it sounds like he doesnt trust you and if he cant trust you then my opinion it wont work...sorry for being blunt but just my opinion...hope all works out for the best...and good luck

08-26-2007, 04:34 AM	#3 (permalink)

peachy_donnamarie33 Guest Posts: n/a	It sounds to me that he might be playing you You have to have it out with him Make or break Make sure you love him for the right reasons