KahneFan06

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I don't like coming onto many discussions on here but I need some help with a problem..

I found a girl on myspace,I really liked her pic she had..So she sent me a message telling me stuff like thanks for talking to me and telling me how she wants to get to know me and stuff..Well she said while ago that she went out and got drunk so bad that she couldn't walk.Now I have started really liking her.I'm not trying to be picky but I want what's best for me and my future..I have several friends and family members with alcohol problems..I don't need a girl like that..Besides I been hurt too much in the past..And another point in her profile she says that she is looking for friends..Does that mean another guy done caught her interest.She told me she don't have many friends but I donno I am looking for more..She commented about my puppy's pic but not my pic..But asked for more pics of me and my puppy...What do I do?

When it comes to women it confuzes the heck out of me


I just want something decent..Someone that will like me and not mess around on me!

:c(

Nilla

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If she liked you, and knew your stand on drinking, yet she went out and drank anyway then Id leave her alone. She isnt interested in a serious adult relationship. Maybe she is just looking for friends and you seem to be looking for more. Asking for more pics of the puppy: either she really likes your dog or she LIKES your dog...(there are some strange people out there).

Just be careful with internet relationships, they are a PITA and a lot more stressful than just a normal one.

And you guys confuse the heck out of us too! lol

Good luck hun,
Nilla

krobelus

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thats one of the problems with the internet,you see something you like you want it and when i arrives at your door it aint quite what you were expecting,you say you like her but you also have your doubts about her,so sit back take a minute and ask your self is it really worth the trouble,too many people have fallen in to the trap of falling for some one on the web,decent people have been led along with the promise of romance when all they really want to do give you the run around,on the other hand i know people who met on the internet and have gone on to meet each other and have a great relationship,basicaly its a mine field out there and any thing can happen,you seem a nice guy so dont do anything you might regret later,as for the girl getting fall down drunk,well lets just say that doenst constitute a drinking problem,but if she is like this on a regular basis there may well be a problem,as for the photos just because she wanted to see your dog more doesnt mean shes not interested in you,and as far as her profile saying shes just looking for friends,well its like this if she said she was looking for love she would be inundated with messages from all the lusty males,at least by saying shes looking for friends she gets to know people a little better,rather than diving in head first and stirring up a load of trouble for herself,any way i hope ive been some help to you in your hour of need,you seem a nice guy so take care,

krob the agony uncle

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KahneFan06

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thanx so much guys

Sophie7

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What Krob and Nilla said is all true, whatever you choose, juts keep in mind that it takes two people to build up a real relationship, if one of them isnt interested enough then is not worth or fair for the other person to keep trying and trying, anyways plz take care of yourself, i wish the best for you

KK_iam

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agrees with Nilla, Sophie, and Krob. I found out something similar just a few days ago myself. These guys give good advice

krobelus

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thank you kk and your welcome kahn

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