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Old 09-02-2006, 11:37 PM     #1 (permalink)
 
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I'll keep it short: I am in love with a coworker... but he has never told me how he feels about me. I've known him for over a year now (and regretably we've already had sex); for several months we talked everyday and night practically. It seems that the interest has dwindled down on his part (and it wasn't the sex b/c we've been sexually involved for the last three months). I guess I am trying to understand his sudden change in behavior. My friends tell me he is constantly asking them about me.. but he acts indifferent around me. What is going on with him? I am afraid to ask him because I don't want to know he is no longer interested in me. I would rather live in denial. HELP!
 
Old 09-02-2006, 11:53 PM     #2 (permalink)
 
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well denial isnt a really healthy way to go and im sure you already know this. As hard as it seems, talking about it is always the best thing to do, not just to know if he feels the same about you, but to let yourself find out if it´s worth it, otherwise you just will never know, I hope it turns out as you wish, but if it doesnt, dont feel bad or hurt, but relieved, becouse you´ll find out that it wasnt meant for you and you are free to move on and find someone who is really worth your time and love.
 
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I like what Sophie said.
from a male point of few, some males have trouble expressing there real feelings.
Check this person out real good, he might had already got what he wanted and went on to other hunting grounds. If you find this to be true it will be of best intrest to leave this kind along. You or nobody else needs a person like that.
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Old 09-03-2006, 02:22 PM     #4 (permalink)
 
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Maria, what I would do if I were you is, I would go to him and say "Whats going on with us? Decide now because I don't have time to wait for you to make up your mind".

Let him know that you don't need him at all even if you do.
 
Old 09-03-2006, 07:09 PM     #5 (permalink)
 
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i agree with fluff,the best thing to do is talk
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