01-15-2008, 11:48 PM
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dying alone
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im confused
my question is much like cutiepants.im so insecure of my looks and clueless
 .lots of people said i was ugly as worms but they suddenly think differently of their sharp pointy pointy words.how do i honestly look in your opinion and what do you think of those other peoples opinions?you know the ones that changed their minds.
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01-16-2008, 01:17 AM
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You're nice enough lookin, but you'll notice in life, looks might get you through the door to who and what you want but personality, integrity, and being generally polite can keep you there. A good sense of humor and some basic tolerance never hurts either.
Take it from me, the outside changes much through the years. Just be someone you'd be proud to have as a best friend, and try not to sweat looks.
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01-16-2008, 04:57 AM
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The Crazy Pirate
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I agree with Grammy. Beauty lies on the inside, not on the outside.Personally I think you're pretty goodlooking. I dont know about other people's opinions. People differ in opinion so it's their problem. You know who you are and what you're made of.The ones who said that you're not goodlooking may have even been jealous. Anyway like Grammy said be polite, outgoing and cheerfull and this will help you have better friends than the ones who thrive on looks alone. So just be who you are and stay that way.
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01-16-2008, 09:15 AM
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Though what the above has said is very true....you have to take pride in yourself...if you carry yourself slummy, and dirty, and dishevoled...(i so spelled that wrong) then that is how people will perceive you....but if you dress nicely, carry yourself tall and strong, then that is how people will see you. no matter what the world says, you believe in yourself, and that you are the most attractive thing, then that is how people will start to see you...as this strong attractive person. you get back from the universe what you put into it. make sure you treat others how you want to be treated and always be yourself.
hope that helps...just a few things that i have learned along the way. |
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01-17-2008, 08:40 PM
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Angel_blackfire you looks are great but to me that dont matter its the person inside that i care about,yea know the one who makes me confused at times
 but no seriously I love you because your you
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