ndnguy_ray

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i just took a chance a month ago to save my marriage and gave up everything . now i know its over because she didnt want2 change. it left me very alone and i self destructed and ended up in the hospital. due to the fact that my wife just treated me very badly . i had no one2turn2.i was so isolated it was so bad i was suferrin from emotional abuse, and she didnt care.she played head games and i fell for it.im done for good but why would some1 do that to the one that loves them so much.

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KK_iam

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Ray,I talked with you in chat today. Life doesn't always make sense and it
sure is hard to cope. But with the love of God in your life it makes easier
to deal with the pain and suffering that you go through. Take him into your
heart and let him guide you. Be strong not only for yourself but for your
children. Don't let this hateful world get you down, but do let the good Lord
in your heart and show you the way!!!

dsexy

Posts: 13

if she is playing head games she dont love u like she say beleave in your self and god keep ur head up things will be alright do what u have to do to get your self together work on your before u try to get back or with any one god loves u and he will never leave or for sake u keep ur head up ok

uneek

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ray ray...man i am sorry to hear you have been through this...i understand y you felt to go and give it a go...sometimes we need that last part to break us...the love we have needs to be completely broken by them so we can let go completely and move forward...i know some days all hope seems so far from us and that it cant get any better but hold on...over a period of time you can see the days slowly getting better and better in between the depressing times... and yes...god really does help you through...all iknew was that no matter what i do he is still by my side and may be the only one that will ever love me unconditionally and walks with me through that deep dark valley... unfortunately its one of those things that you have to take one day at a time...and it really is a very lonely difficult time... i dont know how i got through it...but somehow its worth coming out the other side... hold that close... and yes... your kids NEED you no matter what happens... they will always come back to you... they know your love for them
Hold tight...and catch you up soon hun

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tigerlily

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im sorry you had to go through all that again ray but you had to find out even though its a hard way to do it but at least you know now and you can move on with your life now and finally put it behind you down the track and know that you did everything you could to make it work a second time and it wasnt your fault that it failed you gave it an other try
so now move on with your life and think of yourself for a change and your kids because they still need you but just take care ok and remember i are here to talk to if you ever need to talk

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Kimma2004

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Life has many tests, what hurts us only makes us stronger. I know that things can be hard and things dont make sense but things will get better. I know im just a young girl but i have had my share of bad things in my life and i know that there will be more to come but i also know that there a good things ahead for me too. Just hang in there and remember that you have people here that are more than willing to listen if you need someone.

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2hot2touch

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wlll to srat off i am so sorry, u know my parents went throught the same, so i cant say i have been there but i kinda know what ur talking about, it is hard, i think it is the fact that they want more attention and they dont know how to deal with it, they must have a few problems too!

wildroxymama32

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I wish I had the answer for you, but unfortunately there are some really self thoughted people who seem to enjoy hurting the ones who love them. I hope you find happiness and I know that emotional abuse stays with you, but whatever you do, don't let it keep you from moving forward. You deserve to be happy and until you let go of all her crap and avoid her, you won't be able to get over it and that is what u really need to do. I hope u start to feel better about yourself soon and realize that there is someone out there who will treat you good. Everything good takes time. If you ever want to talk, I am here.

suzukichic

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in three words i can sum up everything i have learned about life: it goes on...... you can take what happened to you and grow from it..pain hurts but i find the best way to ease it is to accept, learn from it...it is a part of you now...

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