10-14-2006, 09:50 AM
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Im having this issue with my boyfriend and a friend. My Boyfriend doesnt like my friend but tolerates when i am hanging out with but when i tell her that i want to hang out with my boyfriend she gives me this additude and tells me that shes not going to be there forever or something like that. I dont know what to do, I want to keep my friend but ive been with my boyfriend forever and i dont want that to be ruined by someone i just met a few months ago, Any advice???
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10-14-2006, 10:45 AM
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well to me your friend should understand the situation. I would just explain
it to her that you would step out of the way if she wanted to spend time with her b/f.Maybe if you can make time for her like when you two could go shopping or somewhere to have some fun, you know spend the day with her, and she might realize that you are making time for her as well. If she does't have a b/f it maybe hard for her to understand the love that you share, but she will. |
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10-14-2006, 02:51 PM
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She sounds to me like she's not much of a friend. "Friends" like that you don't need. But then maybe, like kiki said, if she doesn't have a b/f she won't understand why you would want to spend time with him instead of having fun with her.
I think you should sit down and talk to her about it. |
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10-14-2006, 07:21 PM
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well agree with the girls, if she actually were a friend she could consider being less selfish and give you space, time to expend with ur b/f, im sure she would feel the same way if she were in your shoes, try talking to her, tell her what you feel, if she reconsiders her attitude then you can consider still being friends with her, if not then brake a watermelon on her head
 , you dont need or deserve a friend like that, I hope she comes around eventually, but if she doesnt, tell me what her face looked like when u broke the watermelon on her head  |
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10-16-2006, 02:48 AM
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Not to be funny or anything but she might have a small crush on you. Which might make her a green eyed monster when i comes to you and your b/f. If she becomes to demanding i would cut my ties. You dont want her causing probs. for you and your b/f.Like they said above talk to her tell her how you feel,try to get her to tell you what her issue is.
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10-16-2006, 02:14 PM
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well have you tried double dating, get her a dude and go out together that away you can spend time with both of them, maybe if the two of the your friend and your boyfriend got to know each other they would each be a little less bitter about you spending time with the other
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10-16-2006, 05:04 PM
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I have a strong feeling that maybe your girl friend is jealous of your boy friend. The fact that there is no feelings from your boy friend towards her makes me feel that he sees that she is physically attracted to you. If you don't want this type of a relationship with her, it is time to sit down and talk with her about that. You may lose a friend, but if you do, at least neither of you will be in a relationship you don't want. On the other hand, exploring a closer relationship with her may allow her to relax her negative feelings toward your boyfriend. I hope this helps
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