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nothing can begin without understanding. your heart may be in the right place but without understanding, your actions may not get the results you want. everyone does things for a reason and sometimes? people do not want to share those reasons with others....even friends. what i'm trying to say is, don't try to get her to change or share with you at first. instead, talk to your friend about your feelings concerning the things she does. tell her why you do, or do not drink or smoke. she may listen, and she may talk....and this may lead to a fight.
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