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Hiya,
I had my first baby when i was 20 and had been with my girlfriend for 4 years and lived together for 2 we never planned to have him (john) but it was one of the best things to happen to me in life but having a child is alot harder then most people relise there are things to consider,how good is your relationship ? are you finacianly ok ? do you have family support ,I worked 70 + hours a week to provide a nice living for my family and looked after the bairn as much as i could but then my girlfriend got postnatal depression then found out are son was disabled at 20 years old its alot to take in and having alot of family around made it alot easier for us but it was still hard.What ever you decide i hope you make you right decission but please think carfully about it and make sure its what you both want not just your partner .
Hope this helps you decide and if you need any further advice dont hesitate to ask
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Cheers john 
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