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It's been my experience that love and kindness go far in solving any problem.
Forgive her so she can one day forgive herself. Also helps you to forgive when you mess up. We all mess up.
You can't change anyone but once in a while, you can influence someone by your actions and they will change themselves.
Beware though, this is a powerful ability you have so use it wisely and make sure the example you are is a good one.
Explain you are her friend and as such you cannot handle watching her do things that hurt her.
We should all be our own best friends first. Someone we admire, respect, appreciate, enjoy and even love.
Try forgiveness and kindness because it goes much further in the long run without any harmful paybacks. Anger, revenge and hate hurt the bearer much more than anyone they direct it at.
...sorry, I talk too much
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