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Learn to walk away. Just let her know how much you love her, but you won't stand by and watch her, hurt herself anymore. It's too painful for you. Be honest, and by doing this, maybe she'll realize, this is a wake up call. Maybe she'll get help. Stay with positive people, otherwise, if she doesn't shape up, she'll be dragging you down now, or worse. You're showing her tough love, by choosing to walk away. This makes the message clear, and if she loves you, she'll know she's hurting herself too, and may straighten up. I hope this helps, and I wish you the best of luck. Gentle hugs
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